BTS's RM: ”Born in the 90s, this is the generation for whom marriage became an option for the first time”

BTS member RM shared his honest thoughts on marriage and childbirth with his fans. On the 5th, RM posted on the fan communication platform Wever
While talking to Se about his feelings about preparing for the album, he also shared his thoughts about marriage and childbirth. RM said, "Recently, I've been feeling a bit anxious and depressed again. I always feel anxious when preparing for an album.
"It's like this every time," he said, "I spend a lot of time alone when preparing, and I can't seem to handle the loneliness well."
He continued, "The older you get, the more you should be friends with yourself, but
I need to know how to spend my time at home, but I'm not good at being at home alone." "Even if I clean the house, I'm not at home, so I mostly just sleep at home. I'm not an adult yet.
He said, "I wonder if that's why people get married. It's like they're looking for an eternal family, friends, comrades to do everything with, lifelong friends. That's why people get married.
She added, "When my mother and father were my age (now), I was three years old. But I still feel like a child," and added, "I wonder how they got married at that age and gave birth to me."
"When I think about it, I think it's amazing. When I think about it in my 30s, I think it's amazing to raise children and start a family," she said. She also confessed that she thought she might never get married.
M said, "Two or three out of 10 of my friends are married, and some have already had children. But recently, it's becoming less common to do that." He added, "If I meet the right person at the right time, I might get married.
"Or they may end up living alone. I don't think there is a right answer," RM said, "Women in particular have various issues, such as children and child-rearing. Society and the media continue to oppress them, so
"I think she's being alone, but I want her to live the way she wants to live," he said, adding, "If she can't stand being alone, I don't think marriage will make things better. If she gets married, she'll be alone again."
I think it's a bit strange to choose marriage as an escape from loneliness."
He also spoke frankly about his thoughts on childbirth. RM said, "Raising myself is difficult.
"When I think about how I worried my parents when I was little, I wonder how much I hate my child.
"There are probably some differences. So there is no right answer," RM said. "I think people born in the 1990s are the first generation in Korea where marriage became an option," he said. "However, it's just that they have to go along with their own choices.
I think we have to do that,” he emphasized.